There isn’t enough evidence here to imply a pattern YET and the absence of these answers is disconcerting. He wasn’t a porn star-was he afraid? Embarrassed? Ashamed? Why? The police have always asked the victim why they didn’t report. I’ve defended sexual assault allegations between gay men before. Were the victim/assailant in same the city when it took place? Most importantly, who reached out to the suspect for comment and did they decline? Were the friends contacted? Did they hear the rape in the bathroom? We’re they both gone for over 15 minutes? Is there evidence that substantiates the assailant was in the city when the (alleged) rape took place? Did anyone (his mother for example) confirm the timeline? Taking pictures of a bruised lip and hopefully other evidence does substantiate the claim-did the timestamp on the photos match the date reported by the victim?Īlso, text messages are great evidence, as are outcry witnesses. Thankfully, there’s also there’s no statue of limitations on rape (or they tend to be lengthy in many states.)
There is no official report of what happened. Has DiMaggio been questioned or charged as a criminal suspect in any of these allegations? As the complainant has been afforded anonymity, here are some important questions that must have been asked: Felony rape is a serious allegation per se. ReplyĪ copy of my comments on the original post: The first two allegations described unfortunate encounters but did not suggest a crime had taken place. That's the kind of guy he is – no respect, and willing to go very far to prove that he doesn't respect you and that you know it. I felt awful after that and went home right away. I get that could be fun or flirty if you like guy … but I didn't like him, and he knew I didn't like him. I was more worried about getting his hand off of my neck. While we were standing there in the group in the middle of the bar he grabbed me around the neck (uncomfortably tight – I could barely talk) and stuck his hand down the back of my pants and stuck his finger in me. I didn't like the guy at all so I was telling him to stop and get off me, not in any way that could be perceived as joking or flirting either. We were at a bar standing around talking and he started touching and grabbing me. About 9 years ago I was hanging around with a group of friends he was acquainted with when he lived in Houston. This will hurt him more than it hurts the people around him, eventually.
Replyĭon't know about these other stories but he is extremely aggressive, in a very bad way. The "#metoo" bullshit does not include wimps, nor need them. To the "alleged victims", here's a tip: Start acting like men, not bitchy, whiny women. Why would he rape you? Topher is a beautiful, gorgeous guy with a great cock and he picked the drunken slut to fuck? I don't think so, he has more class than that.
Second, he must have been acting like a little cumdump whore to be in his drunken, drugged up state (nice how he doesn't mention how many lines he had or how many drinks he had). For starters, no one told him to go to the party he was at, that was HIS choice. I'm supposed to feel sympathetic? HA! Seems to me he was begging for it. That he "allowed" Topher to insert himself in him is the wussiest thing I have ever read. You mean to tell me that you allowed a man to shove his thick cock in you and all you could do was say "No, stop, it hurts?" You couldn't have kicked him in the nuts, kicked him off you, beat him the hell up? What kind of a dude lets another guy rape him, even if intoxicated.